December 2022: Our NEW Book

An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships Now Available for Pre-order! We are delighted to announce the arrival of our newest book, An End to Arguing:101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships. This book represents the culmination of our work over...

November 2022: Creative Synthesis

In 2007, Linda and I attended a conference in Dubrovnik, Croatia, in which many other speakers from a number of countries shared stories about peacemaking between groups, individuals and nations. One of these speakers was Johan Galtung. Galtung, who is a Norwegian...

October 2022: Feelings of Deep Gratitude

September has always been a big month for us with lots of things to celebrate and anniversaries to honor. It’s the month in which Linda and I met, in which she was born, in which our first child was conceived, and it is the month in which we got married in 1972. If...

August 2022: Honesty

It may seem like honesty is such an obvious ingredient in all relationships that it should go without saying how important it is. Yet over the years, we never fail to be surprised at the frequency with which we find couples being dishonest with each other. They find...